Top 3 tips for attending a networking event alone
Going to a networking event can feel terrifying - especially if it’s your first one.
When Karley Chadwick, Head of Trust &
Safety Operations at Resolver, attended her first G&T (girls and tech!)
event in Leeds, she went alone. Now, after countless events later, she shares
the three tips that helped her walk through that door and enjoy it!
Be comfortable being uncomfortable
“Everyone will be there feeling the same way as you are.”
That awkward feeling when you arrive? Everyone feels that way! Karley’s biggest advice is to embrace it. The discomfort is temporary and more importantly, everyone else in the room is likely thinking the same thing.
The hardest part is getting through the door. Remind yourself that this feeling will pass and that it’s a sign you’re doing something brave. At G&T events atmosphere is intentionally welcoming and “come as you are” whether you're brand new to tech or a veteran in the industry!
Find one person
“Don’t try and speak to everyone.”
When you walk into a room full of people, it’s tempting to think you need to meet everyone. Karley recommends focusing on just one meaningful connection.
“Find common ground with just one person.”
One conversation can shift your whole experience. It turns a room full of strangers into a space where you already know someone. Trying to speak to everyone can leave you overwhelmed and stressed. Make a couple of friends, and you’ll find they introduce you to even more people… win-win!
Find the organisers
“The organisers are there to make sure that you have a good time.”
If you feel unsure or stuck, find the team. At events like G&T (girls and tech!) events, the organisers main focus is to make you to feel welcome. Karley puts it simply:
“They are there to help you, support you, and champion you.”
If you’re feeling uncomfortable, they’ll introduce you to someone, help you settle in, or simply chat until you find your footing. They’re there to make the room feel smaller.
Why it matters
Community is all about lifting each other up. Karley believes strongly that we become the average of the people we surround ourselves with. Especially for women in tech, where confidence and visibility can sometimes feel harder to claim.
Community events create smaller and supported steps forward. And sometimes, that first small step is simply walking into a room on your own. Feeling brave now? Check out our latest events here.
